Sex Education 101: Day #1. (Continued)
Positions To Give Head (Great Head) There are a lot more blow job positions that you just kneeling over him on the bed. Spice things up by trying new positions. Giving head shouldn’t be predictable.
#1. Laying Giving Head There are a lot more blow job positions than you just kneeling over him on the bed. Spice things up by trying new positions. Giving head shouldn’t be predictable.
#1. Laying Giving Head There are a lot more blow job positions than you just kneeling over him on the bed. Spice things up by trying new positions. Giving head shouldn’t be predictable.
#2. The ½ Lay Giving Head
This usually involves the edge of the bed or on a couch. He will lay on his back with his legs in a sitting position. Basically his legs are hanging off of the edge of the bed or the couch, he back is laying flat against the bed or the couch and you are kneeling in front of him.
I personally like this blowjob position. It puts his penis in a great position and basically just points it right at you. You are able to grab his penis and get some great speed from a really good position for you, but it can make it hard to lick or play with his balls this way
This usually involves the edge of the bed or on a couch. He will lay on his back with his legs in a sitting position. Basically his legs are hanging off of the edge of the bed or the couch, he back is laying flat against the bed or the couch and you are kneeling in front of him.
I personally like this blowjob position. It puts his penis in a great position and basically just points it right at you. You are able to grab his penis and get some great speed from a really good position for you, but it can make it hard to lick or play with his balls this way
#3. Sitting Giving Head
If you have ever given head in a car, then you have pretty much mastered this position. It can be a little hard to get to his penis from a completely sitting position and it can be even harder to get great access to give a great blow job, a slightly reclined version of sitting works a lot better, but, once again, you can play with and lick the balls that easily.
If you have ever given head in a car, then you have pretty much mastered this position. It can be a little hard to get to his penis from a completely sitting position and it can be even harder to get great access to give a great blow job, a slightly reclined version of sitting works a lot better, but, once again, you can play with and lick the balls that easily.
#4. Standing Giving Head
This one is great. A lot of guys find this position to be a huge turn on. He stands while you kneel in from of him and give him great head. Not only does he have a great view, you can easily play with his balls and really get good coverage on giving him head.
There is a little problem with this one. If he is standing up it can be hard to really get up to high speed because the bed (or chair or couch or whatever) isn’t keeping him still. He will sway and it can cause your resistance that you need to not be as strong as it could be. A great remedy for this is to make him stand up against a wall – it will keep him stable so you can go as fast as you want without any unwanted movement.
This one is great. A lot of guys find this position to be a huge turn on. He stands while you kneel in from of him and give him great head. Not only does he have a great view, you can easily play with his balls and really get good coverage on giving him head.
There is a little problem with this one. If he is standing up it can be hard to really get up to high speed because the bed (or chair or couch or whatever) isn’t keeping him still. He will sway and it can cause your resistance that you need to not be as strong as it could be. A great remedy for this is to make him stand up against a wall – it will keep him stable so you can go as fast as you want without any unwanted movement.
#5. 69 Giving Head
Great position. This blow job position allows you to give him a blow job while he goes down on (or just plays) with you. I personally like laying side-by-side while doing this position. There is no pressure on anyone and can enjoy getting and giving head at the same time. You can also lay him on the bed and get on top aligning your genitals to his mouth (and vice versa).
Of course, this one can be a little difficult to keep your concentration (for obvious reasons) but it is still a lot of fun to try.
Great position. This blow job position allows you to give him a blow job while he goes down on (or just plays) with you. I personally like laying side-by-side while doing this position. There is no pressure on anyone and can enjoy getting and giving head at the same time. You can also lay him on the bed and get on top aligning your genitals to his mouth (and vice versa).
Of course, this one can be a little difficult to keep your concentration (for obvious reasons) but it is still a lot of fun to try.
#6. You Lying, Him Standing Giving Head
This one works the best if you lay your head off the back side of the bed and walks up to you. This gives you great access to his balls and it can really be a turn on because you have to be pretty submissive in this position.
Of course, it can start getting a little painful to your neck after a while and you might feel a little dizzy if you stay upside down for too long, but it’s a great way to get things start or to really get close to his balls and play and lick them.
This one works the best if you lay your head off the back side of the bed and walks up to you. This gives you great access to his balls and it can really be a turn on because you have to be pretty submissive in this position.
Of course, it can start getting a little painful to your neck after a while and you might feel a little dizzy if you stay upside down for too long, but it’s a great way to get things start or to really get close to his balls and play and lick them.
Also Keep In Mind-
Tip #1: The More You Enjoy Giving Head, the Better Oral Sex Is For Everyone
You really have to enjoy giving head. It makes the oral sex better for him and it gets you turned on. Think about it this way… having a conversation with someone who isn’t into it isn’t near as much fun as having a conversation with someone who is having a great time. Everything works the same way… especially in the bedroom. When you are enjoying giving him head it just makes sex all that much better.
So get into it, moan, find your rhythm. Whatever it takes to enjoy giving head almost as much as he enjoys getting it.
Tip #2: Use Your Hands When Giving Head It’s not just about your mouth; it’s not just about sucking. You are trying to re-create the feeling of having sex with your mouth… so keep that in mind when you are going down on him. Ideally you want to massage the shaft of his penis with your hand or hands while using your mouth to suck, lick, tongue the tip.
And you can always use the Magic Trinity approach: One hand on the shaft of his penis, one hand massaging his balls and your mouth on the tip. This is sure to send him over the edge.
Tip #3: Ask! Don’t be afraid to talk about giving head! Don’t hesitate to ask, “Does this feel good?”, “what do you like?”, “do you like it harder or softer?”. He will appreciate your willingness for feedback, you find out what he wants, and you will learn more in a few minutes than you ever will just reading articles on giving head or watching instructional blow job videos online. Don’t be shy… ask before, ask during, ask after – just ask!
Tip #4: When Giving Head - The Wetter the Better
A great blow job consists of 4 things: eagerness, technique, heat and moisture. You have got to keep things well lubed down there. If you don’t it can get a little painful and ruin everything. You might even want to try flavored lube if you don’t think your saliva itself will do the trick. Just remember – when it starts getting dry on his penis (especially when you are using your hands) it starts feeling awkward to him.
Take these tips on giving great head and put them to use… You’ll be a fellatio goddess in no time. And don’t be surprised when he wants to return the oral sex favor 10 fold.
You really have to enjoy giving head. It makes the oral sex better for him and it gets you turned on. Think about it this way… having a conversation with someone who isn’t into it isn’t near as much fun as having a conversation with someone who is having a great time. Everything works the same way… especially in the bedroom. When you are enjoying giving him head it just makes sex all that much better.
So get into it, moan, find your rhythm. Whatever it takes to enjoy giving head almost as much as he enjoys getting it.
Tip #2: Use Your Hands When Giving Head It’s not just about your mouth; it’s not just about sucking. You are trying to re-create the feeling of having sex with your mouth… so keep that in mind when you are going down on him. Ideally you want to massage the shaft of his penis with your hand or hands while using your mouth to suck, lick, tongue the tip.
And you can always use the Magic Trinity approach: One hand on the shaft of his penis, one hand massaging his balls and your mouth on the tip. This is sure to send him over the edge.
Tip #3: Ask! Don’t be afraid to talk about giving head! Don’t hesitate to ask, “Does this feel good?”, “what do you like?”, “do you like it harder or softer?”. He will appreciate your willingness for feedback, you find out what he wants, and you will learn more in a few minutes than you ever will just reading articles on giving head or watching instructional blow job videos online. Don’t be shy… ask before, ask during, ask after – just ask!
Tip #4: When Giving Head - The Wetter the Better
A great blow job consists of 4 things: eagerness, technique, heat and moisture. You have got to keep things well lubed down there. If you don’t it can get a little painful and ruin everything. You might even want to try flavored lube if you don’t think your saliva itself will do the trick. Just remember – when it starts getting dry on his penis (especially when you are using your hands) it starts feeling awkward to him.
Take these tips on giving great head and put them to use… You’ll be a fellatio goddess in no time. And don’t be surprised when he wants to return the oral sex favor 10 fold.
Eating Out or Eating Pussy/Ass: A slang term for performing cunnilingus or anilingus.
{To Do This}:
#1.The Initial Lick
As a start, try licking her from vaginal entrance up her clit and following the outer edges of her vagina covering both sides, going up and down and vice versa can be a great way to start your love making and will relax her and get her in the mood.
#2.Holding The Labial
Hold the two parts together gently with your lips, run your tongue between the inner and outer labia one side at a time
and repeat.
and repeat.
#3.Tongue Intercourse
The majority of a woman’s nerve endings in her vagina are around the opening and within the first couple of inches inside.
Hit them with your tongue when performing Cunnilingus by inserting it into the vaginal opening, then licking gently in circular motions combined with flicks of the tongue.
#4.Flicking
Spread her outer vaginal lips with your fingers. With your tongue pointed, gently lick and flick your tongue across the clitoris and into the vagina.
When doing this make sure go gently and see the response before being harder with your tongue. Most women need to be extremely wet to enjoy this as it is quite an intense feeling for many women.
#5.Sucking
Expose her clitoris by spreading her lips and gently pull back her hood.
Suck the clitoris (Please, Please & I Do Stress This Pleeeease be gentle) and then let it go and repeat again.
This can be an incredible turn on and will be very frustrating, warming her up for the other Cunnilingus techniques that are outlined here.
#6.Holding The Clitoris
Take the clitoris in your mouth and suck on it gently, at the same time flick your tongue around it. This can be done very lightly or aggressively or a combination of the two (find out what your women likes first) this is normally intensely arousing when done correctly.
Its as simple as A-B-C
Try using your tongue to spell the alphabet when performing cunnilingus. This is very arousing as your tongue is moving in lots of different directions. You can use any letters you wish, not just ABC! Listen to the ones that give her most pleasure and remember them!
Other points & tips to keep in mind to make cunnilingus pleasurable are
Tip #1. Share a shower or bath together before you start to make sure that you are both clean and add gels and lubricants to enhance taste and stimulation if you wish.
Tip #2. Ask your partner what she likes. She can give you directions such as harder, slower, faster, more circles etc
Tip #3. Fill your own mouth with as much saliva as you can before you begin and never touch or lick the clitoris when performing Cunnilingus with a dry finger or tongue.
Tip #4. Don't go for the clitoris make sure she is warmed up and aroused. Try gentle kissing and licking around the upper thighs and vulva area and work your way up to the clitoris.
Tip #5. Use a variety of ways to arouse her. If you repeat the same motion, your partner can become insensitive to it, keep in mind variety with Cunnilingus and keep her expectations up.
Tip #6. As she becomes more aroused, insert a finger or two into her vagina as well.
Tip #7. Continue to touch and hold her as she orgasms and after and make her feel wanted and loved.
Tip #8. The clitoris has more nerve endings than the entire head of the penis, so be very careful not to be to hard with it go gently and remember ask her all the time what she likes and doesn’t.
Cunnilingus can enhance any relationship and most women love it and getting it right is all about communication.
Following the above tips on cunnilingus will help you satisfy your partner and will enhance your relationship.
Pussy Eating Techniques
The top female erogenous zone!
When you have warmed her up with the above techniques, its time to concentrate on this area
Start, by licking her vaginal entrance up her clitoris, following the outer edges of her vagina covering both sides, going up and down.
Hold The Labial by holding both parts together with your lips, move your tongue between the inner and outer labia one side at a time over and over.
The majority of the nerve endings in a vagina are around the opening and within the first two inches of the opening.
Go for them with your tongue, by inserting it into the vagina, then lick in circular motions combined with flicking of your tongue.
Spread her outer vaginal lips then with your tongue stiff, lick and flick your tongue across the clitoris and up into the vagina.
When you have warmed her up with the above techniques, its time to concentrate on this area
Start, by licking her vaginal entrance up her clitoris, following the outer edges of her vagina covering both sides, going up and down.
Hold The Labial by holding both parts together with your lips, move your tongue between the inner and outer labia one side at a time over and over.
The majority of the nerve endings in a vagina are around the opening and within the first two inches of the opening.
Go for them with your tongue, by inserting it into the vagina, then lick in circular motions combined with flicking of your tongue.
Spread her outer vaginal lips then with your tongue stiff, lick and flick your tongue across the clitoris and up into the vagina.
Expose her clitoris by spreading her lips and gently pull back her hood, then suck the clitoris (be very gentle) and then let it go. This can be a real turn on and will be very frustrating for her.
Take the clitoris in your mouth and suck on it gently, at the same time flick your tongue around it. This can be done lightly or hard or a combination of the two and is a big turn on for most women.
The alphabet
Using your tongue spell out the letters of the alphabet, this is very exciting as your tongue is moving in lots of different ways and is a turn on due to the element of constant surprise.
PS: Remember the letters she likes for next time! The bottom.
Most women are extremely sensitive about their bottoms and there is no better way to show how much you love her than to kiss and lick. This female erogenous zone is one that all women will appreciate being targeted.
Take the clitoris in your mouth and suck on it gently, at the same time flick your tongue around it. This can be done lightly or hard or a combination of the two and is a big turn on for most women.
The alphabet
Using your tongue spell out the letters of the alphabet, this is very exciting as your tongue is moving in lots of different ways and is a turn on due to the element of constant surprise.
PS: Remember the letters she likes for next time! The bottom.
Most women are extremely sensitive about their bottoms and there is no better way to show how much you love her than to kiss and lick. This female erogenous zone is one that all women will appreciate being targeted.
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