I still laugh at the fact that some men/women are so willing to be someone's sideline man/woman...I'm not judging anyone (Trust Me I'm Not!) been there done that...After a while of dealing with all the bullshit and crap you get tired of dealing with the whole situation all together...I guess the old saying is right, "There is a time to be serious and a time to laugh...There is a time to be a child and a time to grow up and be an adult."...Sometimes I still try to figure out why do some men/women still want to get/flirt/deal with that person even when they state they have someone...
Now and days some people have no respect for others, their relationship, or marriage...All they know is that they see something/someone that they like and they want it...No matter what the cost of consequences will be...The ones that flirting aren't the only people to blame...Some people who are in a committed relationship or marriage seems to like or love the attention they get when a man/woman flirt or give them the time of day...They tend to "so-call forget" about their significant other or mate when they're being approached by some men/women...They come up with all these different excuses to why they continued on flirting with that person...
My thing is this...If you communicate with your partner more then things will work out for the better...Yes you will come to some bumps in the road and you will have a few mountains to climb but communication goes a long way...Now if you have tried and tired to give 50%+ and you get nothing from your better half then what's the use in trying to make it work?...Relationships, friendships, partnerships, and marriages take (2)...Both have to give 50% from each end or either give nothing...Why waste your time or be unhappy in the situation your in because you want to keep the person your with?...Nothing will work because it takes two to make it work...Not one...
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